Success at bedtime seems to come and go in phases around here.
For a few weeks it will be like a flat out nursery rhyme.
Teeth brushed, stories read, scriptures read, talking about the day, prayers, hugs, kisses and then SLEEP.
As we look at their precious sleeping faces we think, "Man, we must be doing at least something right."
And then,
dun dun dun
there is the "other" phase.
Also known as Gettysburg.
Too dramatic?
Without changing a bit of the bedtime routine things are just off at bedtime.
A bloody, cranky, tantrumy battle with the kids winning.
Sometimes I want to hide a bedtime.
The big irony is that this important part of the day that you pray will go smoothly comes at the END.
And by the END of the day everyone is exhausted, patience is clinging to the tail end of the rope, and then you get to try to have peace at bedtime.
During these phases I usually think they all just need more sleep and so we move bedtime up a bit.
But the result of that battle plan is usually just a longer battle.
And when they finally crash we look at their precious sleeping faces and think, "What the beepity beep beep beep are we doing wrong?!"
Anyhow,
I know it's a phase and somehow the parents shall again prevail.
Annnd, we are just grateful they are healthy and have warm beds to throw their tantrums in.
But in the mean time,
pray for no casualties.
And please tell me we aren't the only ones who sometimes fight this battle.
"What is sleep? Hahaha!"
Sometimes she just needs a Daddy snuggle.
Unrelated to bedtime, but I found them like this on Sunday afternoon.
Tagg fell asleep snuggling Dev's hand.



I just read this post to Trent and he said, "Sorry, Bridget, you're the only one! That never happens at our house!" hahaha Are you kidding? I yell more at bedtime and getting ready for school than any other time. And don't even get me started on bath time!!! GUH! hahaha You're hilarious and I love your posts.
ReplyDeleteor the 'battle known as naptime' considering as i'm reading this my eldest twin is fast asleep on me after i gave up trying to get her to sleep in her crib (which she normally has no problem with) an hour ago...
ReplyDeleteJust checking in -- Your daughter is adorable! :) Our kids are 14, 12, 8, and 4 and sometimes we STILL struggle at bedtime... I'm not sure if there's a foolproof way, but sometimes i WANT TO HIDE TOO! I know that when it's a "normal" day -- no extra things going on, we usually have better results, but that hardly EVER happens ;) Good Luck!
ReplyDeleteLOVE this! Been there, said that ;)
ReplyDeleteI blame it on full moons. Or when there's no full moon, then I blame it on what they ate. But I never ever blame myself :)
ReplyDeletethat last picture is hilarious. I realized the other day that I hate getting ready for the day and I hate getting ready for bed myself (I didn't just realize that part). They must hate doing it too and maybe that's why it's such an awful time. Can't we all just wake up with perfect hair, makeup on, smelling good, and fully clothed in great flattering clothes. Why must we do it every day and then take it all off later that day. It's annoying, and I think they think it too. Having said that. Brett gets the older kids to bed and I get the babies. The babies are much easier and I don't do any yelling with them since I am still in control.
ReplyDeleteThose kiddos keep ya on your toes!
ReplyDeleteApparently I was a total nightowl when I was a baby and just wanted to be awake all night lookin' around. My poor mom, lol! I should probably write her an apology note :o)
I often say the last hour of the day is the VERY hardest! Ahhh! Luck to you!
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